Yesterday, I had a meeting with the principal of the school that I am putting one of my children into.
At that meeting, we had an extra lady from the district office there, purportedly to help if there was any question as to what was going on.
While we spoke at length and I covered a bit of purportedly new ground for them, including the fact that neither school district regulations nor the WAC is generally applicable law, the meeting made little to no progress. Three things were still claimed to be requirements in order for my child to attend:
1. A birth certificate
2. A filled out immunization waiver
3. A medical waiver
Other things were still wanted, and the lady from the district went over the enrollment form piece by piece to try and convince me of why I should really fill out all of the information that was wanted, particularly the racial discrimination pieces.
After a while though, it became clear that my initial thoughts were correct and the “requirements” are only requirements and not obligations. You see, a requirement is something that must be done in order for something else to happen. For example, they are required to get certain information in order to receive funding. This is not the same thing as me being obligated to provide them with requested information…and typically they can get such requirements waived by showing that they really tried to get the “required” information.
At the end of the meeting, it was decided that I need to speak with the superintendent of the local school district to address the three outstanding matters and they suggested that I needed to call and schedule an appointment. Being me, I noted that if they were refusing to allow my child to attend school, then the onus is upon them to contact me and request a meeting…which they agreed to. Not a big deal, but it rubs me the wrong way to be told that I have to do something because someone else cannot prove a claim.
Anywise, the superintendent was quite prompt and I agreed to meet with him and the principal again this morning…a meeting which I have just returned from.
Going in, I figured that either we would resolve things or I would be looking at the long, painful process of going through our court system…not a big deal, but still not something I am too interested in doing.
This mornings meeting went better than I had expected.
When I asked what law requires all people to have a birth certificate and pointed out that people are born every day without one, that issue was dropped. Clearly one cannot be obliged to provide something that not everyone is obliged to have.
While the liability waiver is understandable, when I pointed out that even if I was some crazy that would provide them with emergency contact information ( I did ) and then try to sue them when they called the given number, asked for the given people, and someone showed up and claimed to be the one called…that they would have been exhibiting good faith and any suit filed against them would be dismissed, that issue was dropped as well.
Oddly, they were most adamant about the immunization form, and I could tell from the superintendents body language and words that I would need to file suit in order to get my child into the school without it.
With that in mind, I took another look at it and realized that all he was asking for was for me to fill out one boxed section ( a box in a legal form limits anything within to being a contained item with no relevance to those things outside of it…this is why a traffic ticket generally contains a box around the “I will show up in court” statement and signature ) that needed only a check mark, a signature, and a date…with no extra verbiage about “penalty of perjory”, “I do hereby certify”, etc.
Since it was clearly not a contract, I checked both the personal and religious exemption pieces ( they are the same thing…our personal beliefs are, in reality, our religion…no matter how much those running the so called state would like us to believe differently ), scrawled my mark, wrote in the date, and handed back the otherwise blank form.
One odd ( though typical ) thing about the entire affair was the way that the superintendent tried to turn the immunization requirement back upon me…pretending that if I did not like it, I would have to prove it was not required. Under our form of law, if something is demanded ( a vaccination paper ), then the one demanding it must prove the right to do so.
Were I to have decided that I wanted to fight the matter, I would have requested a written statement ( not just the highlighted copy of a particular WAC page ) from him stating plainly that my child is no allowed in school until such a paper is provided. If he refused ( he probably would have refused ), then I would have simply needed to show up with my child on the first day of school and have them turn us away. At that point, they would be violating the right of my child to attend school. If I simply took their word on the matter and never showed up with my child, then I would have no right to sue…as I would be failing to try. ( look up hoodwinked )
So, now my child will be in the public school and the sum of the information provided on their forms with signatures amounts to a single checkmark, a date, and my scribble.
I did provide all reasonable information in my own manner with my own words and terms:
- Contact information
- An emergency contact
- A few random facts to help any teacher know a little about my child up front
You can do these things if you put your mind to them, learn not to argue, and keep your eye on the ball ( demand proof of claim…without arguing ).
No matter how large the institution, keep in mind that you are dealing with people, be polite but firm, and you can do things that most people consider impossible.
Admittedly, I don’t much like the idea of my child going to the public school system, but I am thinking that with some extra instruction outside of school combined with a close eye on what is being done in school, things will go decently…and if they do not, there is no registration contract signed by me to establish that they have some right to force me to keep my child there.
At the very end, the principal did claim that she was registering my child…but I let that slide as she didn’t seem too versed in law and failed to understand that she has no power to sign a registration contract for me. Now if she wants to enter in a bunch of information and call it a registration…good and well. But such a thing will never hold any weight in court if challenged.
Oh, and the wife was happy that my “crazy idea” worked out pretty much as I said it would.
— addendum —
Don’t get me wrong, both the principal and the district superintendent were pleasant people and I hold no ill will towards either. My contest lies with those men and women that call themselves the state and claim they can force us to do whatever they please.
It is important to keep these things in mind if you go the route I just went. Be rational. Learn to be informative by asking questions. Learn to instruct by stating things so obviously true that they cannot be denied. Learn to agree upon proof of claim. And most of all, be civil and keep in mind that you are dealing with real people who, like most of us, were brought up in the system and have never even considered that the system itself may not be one of right.
My verbiage can be a bit acidic at times and it may even sound as if I despise anyone who works for the government. Such is simply not true. One of my most cherished friends and many people in my family do now or have worked for government agencies of various forms. All think that they are doing the right thing…and all of them are good people. You might well run into the occasional thug, but so far in my refusal to comply with officals, that seems to happen a lot more at the local city level than it does at the local school level.